I have recently discovered that she has 50k in credit card bills.

My fiancé and I have been together for 4 years. I have recently discovered that she has 50k in credit card bills. We’ve had discussions about finances and she has never shared this … I’m pissed. I feel lied to. We haven’t been talking much for a week but my parents said we can make it through this since “everybody has some kinda debt.” Is this a deal breaker?

Thomas, 29, Phoenix, AZ